On My Own 獨行

I found myself living alone on the cusp of a new century.  Friends enquired if I was coping.  I had to admit that it felt no different; I’ve always been on my own.

However,  things changed.  Few friends remained but they were true.  I was grateful for them and for those who let me go.  Someone told me that you can only fit so many people in your life.  True.

It is daunting to launch a new life but I’d never been one to look too far ahead.  I was a competent chess player once but never plotted the moves ahead.  I played to play and didn’t play to win so triumphs were almost always surprises.  When I lost I conceded with grace; which irritated my opponents.

Needless to say I never played sport, or tried not to.  At school I was last to be picked in a team and spent most of the sports period reading a book under a tree or marking homework for Sister Mary Michael.  Sometimes Fossil (our science teacher) would come along and drag me into the Science lab to feed her rats.  She loved her rats and never let us dissect them.  Their population exploded and one day we had to box them up and send them off to other schools, by rail.  Poor Fossil was near tears.

Back to the future.  I tried to make the most of life.  While I was confined I read and learnt.  When I was free, I travelled; starting with a trip with Intrepid Travel at the dawn of a new millennium.

Thailand

At 47, I was the elder in the group of mostly university students (“you’re older than my mum!”).  One did pay me a compliment at the end of our exhausting but exhilarating hike through the hills of Northern Thailand:  “When I grow old, I want to be just like Mary”.

About Mary Tang

An urban orchardist everyday, a volunteer regularly, a poet sometimes and a blogger since March 2015. I travel when I can. Food is a constant.
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10 Responses to On My Own 獨行

  1. When I was young, people my age were ancient or dead :)

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  2. Cynthia says:

    Interesting, Mary…confined & free… Quite the daring trip to start your travels with. Then again… this is coming from the eye of the beholder. I can’t imagine myself having the guts to do what you have done

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    • Mary Tang says:

      Perhaps it was foolishness :) I had to leap from boulder to boulder over a fast running river with the encouragements of the kids shouting, ‘Come on, Mary, come on; you can do it!’.

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      • Cynthia says:

        Aggh!!! Lol. Starting your new life with this trip doesn’t sound like foolishness. Spending time in unfamiliar surrounding with challenging situations surrounded by University students, full of enthusiasm and optimism seems like a positive and inspiring thing to do. Unusual and daring!! You sure are something, Mary!!! You know I’m a fan:)

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  3. mattb325 says:

    I love how the definition of ‘old’ is 47! To me it’s probably the best time of life :-)

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